<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><channel><title>Feeling of Control · Pablo Stafforini</title><link>https://stafforini.com/tags/feeling-of-control/</link><description/><generator>Hugo -- gohugo.io</generator><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Sat, 23 Aug 2008 00:00:00 +0000</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://stafforini.com/tags/feeling-of-control/index.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title>cravings</title><link>https://stafforini.com/quotes/elster-cravings/</link><pubDate>Sat, 23 Aug 2008 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://stafforini.com/quotes/elster-cravings/</guid><description>&lt;![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Cravings can […] be induced by what we may call the<em>secondary rewards from addiction</em>. To explain this idea, let me recall my own experience as a former heavy smoker who quit almost 30 years ago when my consumption reached 40 cigarettes a day. Even today I vividly remember what it was like to organize my whole life around smoking. When things went well, I reached for a cigarette. When things went badly, I did the same. I smoked before breakfast, after a meal, when I had a drink, before doing something difficult, and after doing something difficult. I always had an excuse for smoking. Smoking became a ritual that served to highlight salient aspects of experience and to impose structure on what would otherwise have been a confusing morass of events. Smoking provided the commas, semicolons, question marks, exclamation marks, and full stops of experience. It helped me to achieve a feeling of mastery, a feeling that I was in charge of events rather than submitting to them. This craving for cigarettes amounts to a desire for order and control, not for nicotine.</p></blockquote>
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